This is me :(
I dont know when it happened.. why it happened.. but i dont know how all of sudden i became so bad in handling my relation.. More im trying to become polite more i m annoying people.. it include all my boss.. my boss's boss.. my near n dears.. M i forgetting how to speak.. or its just the more i am trying to change myself more im becoming confused.. i think politeness is not my cup of coffee.. i was earlier fine.. straight forward.. bindas..aloof.. maintaining distance.. Atleast i was happy... i dont know.. there are so many things going around.. happiness is knocking my door but some forces not letting me open it.. there are complaints.. more complaints.. changes then more changes required.. Is this possible that i forget everything n just live at my own.. i wanna fly... let me fly.. let me forget my relations.. let me forget expectations.. it just me n my life... let me fly..
22 Comments:
HI,
one of the worst things you can do to yourself is changing yourself to please others. It is so destructive to you as a human being. and only you will live with those consequences. at the end of the day, no one cares about your feelings except for you.
please take care...
The other day I sawa a rug for sale that said:
WELCOME FRIENDS!
RELATIVES BY APPOINTMNET ONLY.
:)explains everything ha. Most relatives r a pain in the ass. Just be urself...u dun have to prove anything to anyone but urself.
TC
Keshi.
I think it's all because you are posing with a little less clothes in one photo of orkut.
The problem with Indian girls going onsite is they tend to lose their identity! They try to behave as Madonnas and Britneys not knowing that they themselves are deeply troubled souls. Never act or try being more polite. Be what you are. Be yourself.
What's in a cloth? like they say what's in a name? It does matter a lot Pritika.
Try seeing dressing etiquettes and their importance and occasions.
Well being a ardent fan of your sketches I think a bit of advice may help you.
I can't beleive my artistic pritika couldn't crack the negativity of the west and difference of east.
Don't get over indulged into western world. The primary thing for you is your career and try doing it sincerely and without fear. Earn friends don't assume them.
You are already beautiful.
Don't try being pretty!
Punjaab da kudi ho - come On!
Never take that happiness out of your face. I think DK should step in. Come On man, what are you doing!
Oh dear,
Please have the word verification on. You seem to have spam comment already.
Be yourself. Be confident and let me tell you that people who know you would like you. And it really doesnt matter to those people who dislike you, howsoever sweet you try to be with them.
Right dearie,
lisa, keshi, chitra.. thanx for providing me support.. im feling better trying to learn from my past experiences..
..Banglooru.. I dont know who u r.. but let me tel u one thing.. i dont think im wearing less or little less cloth in any of my photos.. 14 days of onsite has not changed me.. im still the same pritika... n my clothes were never point of discussion b/w my relatives.. i know how to dress for which occassion..
i m unhappy becoz i tried sth to make someone happy but finding tht in tht procedure unknowingly made someone un happy.. mistake was from my side.. but way it was conveyed to me was slighly hurting.. also sth went bad in my office also.. but now atleast i m trying to handle office issues.. but still need to improve on personal front..
Pritika I feel like u too..most of the time...then it suddenly hits me that Im fortunate than a million ppl out there...the sick, the dying, the hungry, the poor, the abused, the small kids who r very ill...who have no chance of experiencing wut we have...I mean babies like Prachi. Then I suddenly realise Im fortunate n I shall count my blessings. Thats how I make up my mind.
Have a good weekend sweetie!
Keshi.
pritika - all other comments here are from females .I have tried to convey you what may be the other side of the coin . (Also females never know/admit when their dress got short - a situational comedy :-) (when in front of a camera - well hmm..! ) ) That's it . Nothing is 100% correct though. Normally these things aren't said anytime by anyone but I do like to speak openly with some whatever I feel.
Hope I make a point here.
I don't know what happened wrong with you but I have a suggestion here quite strange though. Try out a piece of art (sketch or portrait or whatever) there and analyze how is it different from the ones when you were normal.
If you can find/learn out the difference well I think you can do better!
Remember pritika...
'The permanent temptation of life is to confuse dreams with reality...the permanent defeat of life is when dreams are surendered to reality'.
There are trails and tribulations strewn along the path, but always believe in yourself and things will work out fine. Those of who know you will understand you and be there for you...about the others...who gives a damn what they think about you :)
As for Mr. Bengalooru's comment...I feel sad that he has to profess that he is a male to justify his already inane comments. I dont know how one can judge a person by what he/she wears. There is more to a person than his superficial apperarence...ignore him and be true to who you are.
Stopping with a nice quote by William Faulkner, ' All of us failed to match our dreams of perfection. So I rate us on the basis of our splendid failure to do the impossible.'
Keep smilin, girl :)
Oh well Mr. readnryte
Since you have said my comments inane I would like to tell you something.
It's easier to make politically correct statements and statements which can be easily put as the cover of a book but it's harder to munch the reality. Reality does bite!
I made a conscious and a honest approach with some heuristics available to help.(Even you have a blog space where you specify your GENDER, name and even astrological sign . That means you beleive in astrology. I thought you never beleived in any! I still can't beleive you are 35 years old! why do you put it when they don't matter?)
If you beleive and profess that what a person wears has no effect then I beleive you may have to check out your sensitivity factor !
That does mean you take all people whether they wear or not as one.
Well futuristic predictions of robots may actually condense you imagination!
Even a line of sketch shows what a artist is like!Of course you need some quotient for it.
Never in the past, clothes and etiquittes were given so much importance as it's given today.
It's a insane utopia when you don't bother about it.
Having said all these things I would also say that I have already made it clear that this would be one of many factors. Nothing else. That's it.
Sorry Pritika,
I am just taking up one more comment space to answer anonymous bengalooru.
Hey the only things that mattered in the profile was my name..all that astrology sign n crap came up automatically as u enter ur dob and i dont have the time n energy to work and find out ways to take it off the profile...for all I care I dont even want a profile..just a space to write...and what I write in my blog is my opinions..feel free to comment.
I found your comment to be retrograde and thats why I referred to it. What I wear and when is my prerogative and I know my ettiquette..so please dont presume about that 'indianness' or 'east n west' in one's attire alone.
Please understand...we each have our own compulsions and moral values..please dont ebat yours down on mine as I dont mine on yours...
:)
Getting relationships is very easy but maintaining is very difficult. Because we can not live for others expectations and everybody close to us want that way. that is the problem. Anyway when you start reading peoples mind by their behaviour you can understand them and you can be happy..All the best.
Hi all..
First of all im sorry for visiting my blog after so long.. i saw all the views.. i will say everyone has there own way of thinking.. thou wht banglooru has mentioned was not a prolem with me.. but the way he expressed his view was little .. but okie.. thanks for all those who supported me.. i m feeling much better now.. n banglooru..about my sketches yes i know i need lot of improvement.. m trying..
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Hi!
Thanks for stopping by!
don't listen to the negative bangalorr whatever his/her name is! ur doing awesome! everyone needs improving even the masters!
i hope you're doing good....isn't ur hubby coming back soon?
talk to you later! bye
Yes Pritika, Ignore Bangaloru. you are sketching for your interest and they are good.
just Be yourself. We all love you for that and that is why v stop by your blogs.
Take care.
Are Are Are.......
You are going on a wrong path...
"Politeness is not my cup of coffee..".What is this???
Its nt a cup of Coffee/Tea, its a trait common to all, practice it, cultivate it and make it a habit........
Go through teh link:
http://www.geeta-kavita.com/article.asp?article=chip_chip_ashru_bahane_walo
And Smiles :) now
interesting comments u got this time hehe...dont worry be happy enjoy whatever comes :D!!
missed ur posts.pls do write often.
Hi Prtika,
Haven't been here for a while here. Well, when I saw this post, there weren't any comments. Very interesting views being expressed here. I especially enjoyed the quiant sarcasm by Chitra about having spam protection! I just can't stop laughing!
Hmmm... I loved the way you handled different views with a lot of poise and strength. Well, this strengthens my belief that I have had right from our college days that you are a very mature person, unlike what many people thought about you during those daysjavascript:void(0).
Great going - sail ahead, or should I say, "Just fly!"
Take care,
Angada
hey Pritka! chanced to ur blog thfu angada'z.. n saw this one.. cheer up girl!! i remember u as a polite girl.. wt on earth u r talking abt?? neways, cheer up and most importantly - BE YOURSELF!! do not let naything bog u down!!
TC
Being straight forward maintains a healthy relationship in the long run. People would see the "Real you" and it's their choice to be with you or not...
It also helps the other people what to expect and shows them their strengths/weakness giving them the opportunity to improve.
The choice again is yours "Whether you want to live for yourself or for others?"...
...please where can I buy a unicorn?
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